*is mad*

[misscam]

Always so nice to know one is not even worth a personal apology. Thanks. Really.

And why is people going all 'oh, you're a bad friend if you don't forgive?' Dude, I am not telling you how you should feel or what is right for you, so *kindly* don't attempt to guilt me or go holier-than-thou.

*rubs temples*

Aaah... Ignore me. I'm feeling angry and frustrated and hurt and vengeful and tired... Not my best side, obviously.

And you probably have no idea what I'm on about in the first place, so... Yeah. It's been one of those days.

Comments

For what it's worth...

[megpie71.livejournal.com]

1) Can understand the frustration and betrayal involved. Not necessarily feeling it, but can understand how you got there. It is *never* good being treated like crap.

2) That said, I quite agree with you on the whole "forgive and forget" crud. Forgiving implies forgetting, but until you've forgotten, or until you've reached the point where the pain isn't hot enough to be forgotten or at least disregarded, you aren't ready to forgive. So having someone else tell you how you should be forgiving a person isn't worth a good goddam.

3) Angry, frustrated, hurt, vengeful, tired... you left off "human" from the list. Don't beat yourself up over it.

4) *hugs*

Re: For what it's worth...

[arabel.livejournal.com]

Word to all of that. Including the hugs.

Re: For what it's worth...

[misscam.livejournal.com]

Thank you. *offers Norwegian chocolate all around*

Re: For what it's worth...

[arabel.livejournal.com]

*smears some of the chocolate on a few Noldorin elves, and passes them around too (still somehow looking dignified, if slightly grumpy)*

I really agree with what you've said on the subject, and think you're perfectly entitled to feel upset, and not to be happy with the idea of pretending nothing happened. *shrugs, and sighs*

Where did those elves get to...?

Re: For what it's worth...

[misscam.livejournal.com]

I am of the 'beatine yourself up' type, I fear. I do it over a lot of things - for better or worse, I suppose. Sometimes it's good to beat yourself up a bit. Maybe not in this case, though. I don't know.

But thank you. *offers Norwegian chocolate*